Lionel and Janice's healthy ageing story

Building independence through mutual care

For Lionel and Janice, the key to staying independent is sharing responsibilities. It's not about taking over. It's about knowing each other’s strengths and combining them so they can keep doing more - together. Here's an example:

While Janice might be the one to put some washing in the machine, Lionel hangs it out, as Janice can no longer reach the line. 'You do things that're normal, and life comes easy,' Lionel said.

Their support for each other doesn't stop there. ‘For our appointments, we’re always together. If I forget what the doctor says, he remembers. If he forgets, I’ll remember,’ Janice said. By sharing responsibilities, both Lionel and Janice remain active and able to cope when things don't go to plan.

‘Sometimes I do my back. It could be as easy as getting out of the shower, and I’m gone,’ Janice said. ‘He’ll get the walker for me, dry me. We both assist each other. Especially when he had a broken thumb, sprained wrist, all these kinds of things.’

Ups and downs of ageing

Janice and Lionel know that ageing is not a smooth or predictable process. 'You have your good days and your bad days,' Janice said.

While they don’t deny that times can be tough, Janice and Lionel keep going - together. They understand and balance each other, boosting their spirits and helping them focus on making their days worthwhile.

‘Janice understands the way I feel, and I understand her as well,’ Lionel said. ‘We have a good life together. We have a lot of fun. Why not? You only have one crack at it.’

Everyday Tools to Help Mob

Healthy ageing isn’t something you do on your own. It’s made easier by connection. Download Lionel and Janice’s full story to read more about their healthy ageing journey:

Lionel and Janice also helped create culturally grounded resources. They provide real stories and practical advice to help other First Nations people stay independent.

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